distress???

Returned a call this morning.
A msg from yesterday for me to call back. Apparantly it's someone's wife calling on behalf of spouse.
I hate to return this kind of calls.
Why can't the intended person call and needed someone else to do so.
So what it's husband n wife?.

Turns out. The letter was addressed to the husband as the owner of the vehicle we are suing.
The wife called and said all sorts of blabbings. We are not even suing her. So what if she's the wife? We can't go after her what. Sometimes... when a person in under extreme distress, really all kinds of imagination can happen.
And so she was telling me, it was a slut who was driving the vehicle and caused all this problems...the accidents...the summones...n she being a poor housewife with the kids...and the husband is away on a trip...
for close to half an hour i was listening to her, as if i'm actually a helpline here...
had to even ask her if she wants professional help...
she had been so insane to the extent that she was asking what kind of a person my client is, and there is a chance that the slut had ganged up with my client to cause this kind of distress to her.

duh???? It's just a common traffic accident lor...and not as if we are suing her or anything. To my concern, it's actually none of her business.

And come to think about it, where love is concerned...where $ is concerned...where family is concerned...there are indeed hell lotsa complications.

And this is one of the times where i really appreciated the 'lone' status...where u can't bring any trouble of any kind to anyone and of coz, lessen the so called distress from anyone. Though not to zero line but it's for sure alot lesser.

Nothing on this earth is free and meant to be smooth sailing...and what happens when we worked so hard to find that in the end, we achieved nothing?. Bang wall??? *faint*...

Pity this lady. She seriously needs professional help or counselling. To the extent of telling a stranger her problems and most importantly, sometime which actually none of her business. Only that she links it up due to the fact that they are husband and wife.
And, on another note, she can address the driver of the vehicle as the slut of which the owner is her husband...duh...then why are you still with him??? Oki, maybe it's the kids problem. Or maybe it's still in the initial stage of their marital problems. Still...
*shake head*

Women do need to stand up.

When was the last time you did a good deed?

When was the last time you gave your friends a treat for no reason, not because of their birthday or some celebrations?

When was the last time you sat down and have a good dinner with your own folks?


When was the last time you find yourself enjoying every breath you take?

When was the last time you saw a rainbow?

When was the last time you were caught in a rain, drenched but enjoyed every moment of it.

When was the last time you smile to a person for no particular reason or happening.

Just when, was the last time you had 'touched' a person.

I have a habit of 'repeating'. Be it reposting...reading the same 'ol messages and etc...it's simply because all these serves as a reminder.
I do not have a mega memory. The constant reminds need to be present.
And besides, i can't even remember if i have ever posted this. Lolx...me and my short term memory syndrome.

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.

She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"

In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle.

In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades.

It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.

This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience.

It'll NEVER just happen to you.

You can't "find" LASTING love.

You have to "make" it day in and day out.

That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love."

Because it takes time, effort, and energy .

And most importantly, it takes WISDOM .

You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery.

There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.

Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.

It's a direct cause and effect.

If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable...you can "make" love. Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling .

In another word, it's responsibility. Responsibilties towards oneself and the partner you have chosen to walk the rest of the life journey.

And it's so true that so many people forgotten about the reason that they were together in the first place.

Slowly and surely, the contributing factors like social pressure, the 'why settle for a tree when you can have the whole jungle', the invisible change in oneself due to the environment, the frequency that suddenly goes out of tune, the seduction of a seemingly more beautifully almost perfecting figure in fleeting moments of distractions and not forgetting the pressure to live in a tiny little dot that strives to be par with the giants out there. Hmmm...as well as the blindness which comes along when the cupid forgets his contact lens while on a mission?.

Will the stamina give way ultimately?
B had his off on sunday and monday. Rest of the week will be like hell for him. The sales. The late working hours.
And so he tried his best to acompany me. Sunday was spent just lazing around till he go for his dinner appointment.
Then on monday, had dinner and done some window shopping before he headed back to his shop meeting.
Then he came looking for me after the meeting which by then was 2plus(am lor).

Results.
Two tired souls in the morning.
Long day ahead.
Can't help feeling worried.
Though the uneasiness has been assured.
Still, it's not healthy isn't it?
Hate the fact that he always has lack of sleep.
And me? 99.9% will turn grouchy if not enough sleep.
Yet, .. ..
ger is really too into .. .. ..
is it vit B or poison B after all?

Irrationalism does rule prominently in the affairs of heart.
But that doesn't mean for those who acted sensibly and rationally are having lesser than the former.

A decision of want and need? To give in to heart and not mind?

Mind in a blank.
Teary eyes at work the whole morning.
And calls were neverending.
Even my receptionist commented that i was on the phone for the longest time.
I was entertaining calls after another.

My 'ah pa' suddenly sent me a 'smile' msg. It was as though he knew my mood hit one of the lowest points. How could he know? Can't be. We have not been in touch for ages.
And this is how co-incidence strikes.
Was trying to hold back till i saw the 'smile' msg which really...nearly let go of what i was holding onto.

Both of us have been using our own ruler to measure what's good for each other.
Plus the clashes of our nature of work.
Plus the irrationality that love has brought forward.
.. .. ..
hontoni ai sheteru
.. .. ..

Balance

I have always believe in a equilibrium. Though it may be not fairly distributed but there has to be a balance some where.
And just like for work.
A very peaceful...in fact slow pace of work this morning. Nothing much. Nothing rushing. It was not the work waiting for me to be done. But me finding work to do. Flipping up the cases to check on progress and not sitting there trying to finish the stack on table.

The quiet and peaceful morning was soon taken over by a mad rush in the afternoon. For no reason and all of a sudden, it seems like all the things must come together. Running here and there...taking instructions from one after another. Passing the files from one to the other. Returning of calls in midst of the rush.
Geez...and clients all coming at the same time. And at this time when the receptionist is on urgent leave. Argh...
*faint*

And now...finally settling down...and yeah, tml is friday!!!

Date: 20062007
Time: Another hour and half to go before going back 'niang jia' for dinner

Mood: Switching between neutral and moody

From my angle, i can see that my boss is playing the 'mines' game. Wonders why isn't he heading back yet. Probably gota fetch Adeline later.

It's the dumb dumb period of the month which explains the grouchyness and tiredness and the listlessness.
Super boring.

Junie dear is already at Beijing. Sometimes i do envy her...nature of work that brings about the travelling. But i guess i'm not suited for such. Maybe unless i'm single...else i really will hate the missing part.

Recalling the news in the papers today...about a man who switch his diet to macrobiotics diet due to his rare blood condition. And the switching did indeed helped him to miraculously recover. Even the doc can't explained the reason.

There are still so much more things that science can't explain and keep up with, i think.
It's like at the point of discovery, the changes are taking place too. Just like the resistant bacterias and viruses...they can get stronger and more powerful.

Back to the topic...anyway...it's true when one says you are what you eat.
I agree but i don't abide with...can't just have the greens and greens and just greens...i will die~~~maybe...if i don't switch, i may die faster...but that's alright...been my wish to die earlier...lesser the suffering upon oneself and to the surounding people...my opinion lahh...

Looking at my calender now, suddenly i realised i have worked here for more than 2 years already...oh my...it's a flash of time...a very sudden flash has just been over like that.

=S

I'm really bore here...

Simplicity

When does being simple mean being a standstill?
People who don't exactly crave and proved by actions that they are $ driven, status driven are deem not progessing?
Easily contented and with little complains, living one day as it is, means not planning?

There is always a arguementative point in some where.

But i guess so long U are comfortable. Nothing else matters.

Like when bro talked about the stabiliy issue when we were strolling somewhere.
One's stability may seen as unstability from another's view.
So why the care of other's opinion? Except when U mind that person's views.

Perhaps we all are too mindful about the eyes from people around us.

=)

Slept before 12 and i'm still tired.
*yawn* *yawn* *yawn*

My diary for the weekend. Read: Sad
Specially made fried beehoon for dear as breakfast so that it's not the usual bread & butter only. But due to the late night (turning in at 2-3plus) resulted in him being tired and also the fact that he minds me scarificing my sleep to prepare, had him in little appetite. Still he did finish his plate to show appreciation.
The late night before was that he had to attend his colleague birthday celebration, and well, =) knowing that i was hungry, he brought back 2 wings he had bbq...*yummy* But still, i wished he had more appetite for the breakfast. *i'm not a great cook but it does taste nice de!!!* haahaa...

Then, unfortunately an unhappy incident on sat night. Dislike the fact that he had allowed his tiredness to turn into grumpyness that produces a reprimand.
The tone is his voice thats suggesting of impatient and vex of my muddlehead.
He may not meant it the particular manner as i see or felt but it had been seen and felt that way mah.
And PMS does make things worse. I hate my mood in this particular period.

Anyway, on monday morning, another muddlehead incident had to happen. All because of me like not finding the usuals (painting and dressing) a chore, and still wanna top it off by ironing his shirt and preparing sandwiches for him and therefore...forgotten to wear something important. ARGH!!!!

And was late for work...though it didn't really matters but still late.

Doesn't seem like my efforts are working right. Grrrrr....

Does it mean that i'm not suppose to do something good for him??? lolx...

We always talk about some people who had no initiative ('buay zI dong') but i'm just wondering. These people are simply can't be bothered ('boh chap') or they have no idea at all (blame it to low EQ) or they are too spoilt to realise the people around them don't like the way they behave and their attitude.

Too much instances.

Just like for a fellow colleague of mine. I have come to realise since day 1 i know of her existence, we all have been taking turns to 'invite' her to lunch, meaning we have to tell or ask her whether she wanna lunch or it's lunch time. *wtbf is she that she can't realise it's lunch time mah? Everyone has work to do arh...she's not the only one. Not paiseh de mah? Maybe lor...either she so shy...or really didn't realise...or she thinks she someone big deal.

And then, my own encounter in the mrt. Yesterday while on way home. It can be considered one of the worst encounters ever. While at Cityhall, it's so obvious that it's fcuking crowded. But there were these 3 assholes...pushed and shoved their way in. GRRRR...i had to resort in 'elbowing' the guys to prevent them from leaning on me lor. What on earth are these people thinking? Push? Step? Shove? Idiots!

White & Black Weekend

--A White Saturday--

Saturday was good. Very good. B had come to acompany me after his drinking session with Paul when he had intended to head back Tanglin on the fri nite. Hence, in the morning of saturday, we had a good breakfast together. I woke up ard 9plus to get the chores done. The mopping...the cleaning of my room...the washing of clothes...i had washed 3 loads of clothes lo...its not that much la...just that i had a habit of separating the colors and the towels...dan B went to buy breakfast...It was a sumptous meal of kway chap, black carrot cake n roti prata...*yummy*

Then B was off to Tanglin where his mum cooked lunch for him. It was a day for him to 'pei' his mum. And me? Off to meet up with my bro for the 'Art Market' @ Fort Canning. It was a 'never been to one and just wanna look look see see' kinda experience.
But the end result was disappointing.
It was a long long walk up to the Fort Canning. And upon reaching? Its not that big de lor...the area of the building itself plus a few more 'stall' along the walkway outside...
The time taken for the journey up was actually longer than the browsing time.
My bro commented that it was more of a flea market. Well...
Anyway, apart from the usual suspects...the handmade jewellary of all sorts...ranging from the necklaces to ear-rings to bracelets to even teddy bear cuff-links? haahaa...it was cute...but i can't imagine anyone wearing that...
Oh...and what a fanciful ear-rings...what innovative ideas the people had there...think of the 'lock' of the daily bread we had. The sunshine...the gardenia...the bonjour...the 'plastic locks' can even be used as ear-rings!!! HAAHAA...

Then the pottery...the oil paintings...
Really nothing much that surprises me which i had expected...

And to think the signages says the possibly largest art markt in town...imagine the rest man...

Perhaps the only surprising stuffs are when bro n i had a stroll around the park and made some discoveries like the tombstone...and a huge huge metal door which was like part of the WWII thingy...it was heavy de lor..imagine 2 skinnies trying to push the both doors and closed it for photo-taking...lolx...

After the 'market' trip, bro and i met up with his bro...whom i saw for the 1st time.
Had dinner @ Smiths street, ate kway chap AGAIN...satay...

Then i was off to get egg tarts for B. His favourite egg tarts from Tong Heng @ chinatown.

--Black Sunday--

A fuming mad day.
Lunch with folks. They were half hour late.
Bloody hot weather caused me tension headache.
Then steamboat buffet lunch in such a weather.
Not a nice experience with the folks having buffet.

Then they had get on my nerves by asking for a copy of my ic AGAIN for the mlm thingy which i am NOT at least interested.

*fcuk

--SUMMARY--

A big contrast of saturday and sunday.
Mood basically run from one end of the spectrum to another.
And didnt wanna jot down so much for sunday...unhappy stuffs...

Generally, it was still great because i had B by my side...
=) we are entering our 9th mth...
And i'm HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY...

Still, i'm feeling vexed about how to communicate with my folks.
Plus the fact that i have disappear from them before due to some issues which got on my nerves too...
So if there is a first time...there will be a second...but i don't want history to repeat.
But on the other hand, it may be do us all good that we all mind our own business...

so tell me...enlightened me...

Life is a roller coaster ride. And its applicable to every single aspect of life.
Before you have fully and truly enjoyed the wind across your cheeks while riding up and upon reaching the peak, the crashing down ride surely brought you back to the reality of fears and uncertainty.

Moral Values?

If there is anyone who read the front page of ST Home section today is not appalled by the news, i feel that the person should be gun shot.

How on earth can us, human beings with blood and feelings be so unfeeling? So selfish? So unsympathetic? So heartless? So @#$%?!!!
Where has the moral values gone to? The public care & concern? The public awareness?

Everyone is living in their own world. That all of us sees only 'ME' everywhere.
So much that everyone is caught up in the rat race that they have forgotten about being a HUMAN.

Are we not talking about lives here?

So a human's life is less important than picking a spouse.

What kind of theory is that?

And to think that traffic accidents usually sentence lighter than civil or criminal caes.

And B made a comment, "so next time people will turn to knocking people down, since the sentence is lighter".

Utterly disgusted with these people's mindset and thinking.

It's no wonder the kids can't behave now adays..that because the adults are not setting a GOOD example!!!

Has it got to be when things are happening to their love ones around them then they will wake up from their dreaming?
It's like, if the person whom the merc driver had knocked down, turns out to be the husband of her best friend le?...i know this thinking is abit out of nowhere but it's a mere simple example to question people about their attitude towards the so-called strangers.

I can't imagine the driver of the merc, if she does happen to be a mother or elder to nieces and nephews...how is she going to face them?

As much as not asking people to go around be extremely nice and friendly to all, but for the least...to do what is needed to be done.

It seems like the "NOT SAYING SORRY" from the minor pushing and shoving of people, knocking them here and there in the public places, transport interchanges etc, has evolved into doing the same when using machines.

=) I'm the happiest gal on piggy's planet.

Heehee...
Love deardear...
Muackz muackz deardear...
Hugz hugz hugz deardear...

oki...im getting too mushy...

Still, seriously speaking...it has been good and it's ongoing better...amidst the little tantrums i throw...
As i have said to him, it's the choice of words, the actions, the gestures that he did and used, to communicate with me, to tease me and make me laugh and to make me ponder about stuffs which is usually left as it is, untouched, that all touches the right points in me. Hmmm...not that perfect de lahh...but almost. =)

Likewise, i will wanna be able to take care of his needs...prepare things for him...cook stuffs for him n etc...'man han quan xi'? has to wait...lolx...

Closer

It's a 3-4 years old movie. I guess.

Didn't managed to catch it during the screening on big screens.

Watched it last night at B's place.



A entanglement of love relationship.

2 couples. Intertwined loveship.

Both were having affairs.

Yet both gets furious when their loved one were making out with the 'legally' right person.

?



Explain love.

Unexplainable.

There are people who fall blindly into love.

There are people who are so cautious that unknowingly, they have missed the right person.

Then, there are people who love for the existing 'criteria'

What about you?.

lunchtime boredom

xiong xiong has been absent in the office lately. which is bad news. no one ard to seek advice from for the dumb dumb files.

n when he is back? either he's with clients or busy with his own sec. duh...

n like cy this morning since he's in. the ones inside his room are his fifth client of the day liao lor.

sigh. n double sigh.

yesterday mama snakie popped a funny Q.

snakie: keline, this client is 80 yrs old le!!! will he still be ard??? still can issue the WOS???

me: 80 yrs old? *stunned stunned stunned* wah...80 yrs old still can ride a bike n involved in accident.

*on a second thought, maybe that's why he was involved in an accident.

me: ask bear la...n he will tell u to arrange interview dan we can cc if he's still fit. =p

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The GSS has just entered it's 2nd week, and i have gotten myself 2 pants...2 shirts...1 blouse...1 pair of shoes...3/4 pants...so few yet my wallet has a tiny hole already...and i still need to get bedsheets...hair dryer...iron...belts...n more shoes???... n more clothes for work? Have slowly changed the basic top n cardi match to shirts lately...but hor...all my shirts are in stripes de lor...-.-'''

And ... most of the items i have got are brown de lor...i'm turning into a tree man...hmmm...a trunk bah...

i'm bore...

smokey time...

ideal no. of hours

8 hours of sleep
Half hour of exercising
1 n half hours to prepare going to work
1 hour to read newspaper and have a cup of coffee
1 hour of journey
1 hour of lunch
9 hours of work
3 hours of dinner and chilling out with frds
1 hour journey home
2 hours of resting, bathing and chores before heading the bed
plus another 2 quality hours with B

That's only 30 hours...ain't that many to ask for rite?

This was what i derived from after yesterday. With only 4 hours of sleep...barely in 'workable' condition.
Met up with B after my little bit of OT, went to 'yu ren sheng' to get him herbal tea to cool off his otherwise heatiness...then meet up with Junie dear and pig for steamboat dinner and desserts at the ah chew dessert stall. By the time i'm home, it's already almost 12. sigh ... where to have enough rest?!!

Am i getting old???

Not the first time out like that...dinner after work...but why am i so tired???

Good news.

Junie dear used to shutter between jkt n here due to work...n now? she has the chance to travel to beijing!!!

=)

-Friday-



My hunky bro just can't be trusted. The 'zhong se qin mei' kind. Nonetheless, i didn't do nothing on a friday night. Went for a hair cut to 'refresh' myself and well, the results is not that bad. Pretty much like the way my fringe is being cut (though the 'gong-gong' effect is more than ever), the chances of heading back is quite high. I like the hairstylist.



-Saturday-



Arranged to meet at 12 @ vivo with the gals for shopping and at 1150, i was still at home. Oopsss...

It was a day of shopping for whatever that was needed and very much not needed...lolx...

We had spent a great deal of time at G2000. Perhaps it's time that we are on the VIP list or something from the company. From the outlet at vivo, we hopped to harbourfront and then to wisma atria, and almost to the one at taka but by then, we were pretty tired at going to the same label. Apart from the work clothes we were searching high and low for, we got the 'usuals' as well...shoes!!!

Then, wallet and cards holder for Michelle and Junie respectively @ Metro...

Our dinner was settled @ Shimbasoba...a place purely for soba dishes...@ paragon...
Food fare ok...but the service, once again it sucks...and it's not the locals that are spoiling the market lor. It's the foreign labour. *faint*

Can't we have good service no more?

A good movie marks the end of the day of shopping and dining.
Caught Shrek 3. And with the company of B too...heehee...Finally he's back from the Genting trip!!!


-Sunday-

Resting day. Ironing clothes day.
B was complaining about the speed of my ironing skills.
-.-''' At least i know how to iron mah...grrr...

And then again, B fell sick...throat inflammation...

sigh...

In some casual conversation, B was saying about having a refund because i failed the test of a domestic manager. Then i said i wanted a exchange because his quality fares slightly (due to the falling sick now and then). *faint*

Shock

I have got a shock of my life when i met up with my bro during lunch time to pick up something he recomended.



Been ages since i last saw him in shirt and pants. But today, there is an addition!!! A pink stripe tie!!!

Couldn't stop laughing away and insisted that he allow me to take a pic of him. Hahahaha...

My Vesak Day-31 May 07

*alittle side note here...some random thoughts...alittle upset and affected...but then its ok bah...like i told junie dear...its not about how much you are thinking the other is giving...but its how much you are giving...sincerity reaps sincerity...if its not reciprocated then its the loss of the other...

And more than often, it's always a fool who thinks others is a fool.

And isn't it sad that one can't pen their truthful words into their blogs???

Honestly and frankness are becoming rare gems in this masked society that we all are living in.

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Oki, my start of the holiday...intended idea was ruined by the late nite before...sleeping at 3plus in the 'morning' resulted in my eyes opening at 735am for the first and the next at 1245pm.
Had wanted to get up early, to do some cleaning up. Then head out to a nice cafe for breakfast and just to enjoy the tranquility. But it was not meant to be after all.
After the cuppa, chatted with Junie dear, was telling her about my cravings for the dessert @ bakerzinn, then it became a debate of where to head for hi-tea...and without realising that at 3pm, we are still at home, unprepared.lolx...what hi-tea to speak of? haahaa...

Hence, decided for a early dinner @ Manhattan. After a sumptous dinner, alittle shopping here and there. Haahaa...acompanied Junie dear to shop for her hair dryer...then off to the Marks & Spencer for snacks...Carrefour for B's coffee-mate...and last but not least, G2000!!! Where we had gotten ourselves each a pair of pants and two tops...fruitful day? I guess so. There is part 2 of shopping scheduled tomorrow with Michelle too...and i shall have my dessert fill @ bakerzinn.heehee

After the shopping, we had our rest @ tcc where we waited for my bro, Seth and his frd. Told myself, not going to head back to this particular outlet anymore...the services sucks...and plus the fact that they refused to admit they had given the wrong tea!!! Keep insisting that it is english breakfast when it's earl grey. *pissed*

Then Junie dear's pig hadn't wanted to join us or to head to mr. bean and so it was down to Seth, his frd, Kelvin and me to coffee club @ cineleisure.
Nice chat...missed my bro, man...can't remember when was the last time we had such a chat since the unfortunate incident. Wish i have the time to apologize too but its already over. Over and done with...sad stuff are meant to be buried. No matter what, i know...he's still one of the best bro i can ever have.

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Having lovesick is no good...
A chat with bro made me realised that B is not just good. His patience for me...his efforts made for me...i'm a lucky gal. =)
If i'm a believer, i think i'll probably thank God every day for his existence in my life, but of course with the exceptions of pre and post pms mood swings...hee...oops...

Hmmm...at the same time...lolx...i'm not that bad too...haahaa...after hearing about the gf that bro is with now.
So many 'no's!!!
No ear rings.
No slouching.
No vulgarities.
No smoking.
No heading out with another gal alone.
and some other countless no-no which i don't even know yet.
*faint faint faint* the best part is...all the no-no are to made him look like a man.
I can just fell off the chair by laughing too hard.
Define looking like a man?!.
My bro is not sissy like in any ways...his voice is not the tainty type...he maybe a tad skinny...almost bones and skin but not on the extreme side.
He's just like the typical guy whom u can easily spot on the streets...definitely not the not-man or un-man kinda guy de lor...

Then again, i'll love to meet this sis-in-law...if my bro will to give me that chance la...haahaa...

I'm waiting~~~

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Not forgetting a little short post note here for the eve of the holiday.
Had gone down to Joanna's BD celebration @ Le bar.
What a rare occassion of meeting up with Lihuan, Meiyan, Chloe, my bro-Kevin, of course the birthday gurl and as well as crabby dear.
Am very glad that things are doing well for most of them.

Seems like everyone has grown out of the SnK phase of their lives and moving to the next stage. Which is good. =) It's all meant to be part and parcel to mould us better.
Except ...oh well, to each of their own.